let it go ~

u know what is the worst things ever happen in love?
is that we  miz someone we love even tot they gone.
yes we do. and its never gonna end~
we love to live in memories(sweet or bitter).

i even heard of story from someone close that tend to call the number  over and over again even after the owner of the number gone(pass away)
is it necessary  to do so? maybe
even tot we know that its impossible for them to answer the call
but we tend to do so? why?
as i said before, we love to live in memories.
we cannot accept somethings gone and look forward to the future.
its on our hand..
hold it tight but not too tight.

i , myself love to hold the memories tight,
that  the reason why i create  this blog.
scare of someone that i forget
or maybe just to refresh for it.
its not only for the miserable things,
but also joy.
we, human have strong memory in remember sad things more than happy things
happy things last for second and sad things last forever.
the point is that izzit better if we live in happy more than sorrow?

PS: 1 minutes of sad equal to loss of  60 second of happiness